Second home visit

Alright so we had our second and most dreaded visit and I can say we survived!!!  It was as they explained they questioned each of us individually for over an hour. I'm sure you are all shocked to hear that Jason took longer than mine lol. The questions ranged from the members of our family, past relationships, deaths in our family, infertility, how we fight, what we fight about, strengths and weaknesses of us and our spouse and on and on. Basically every detail of your life is fair game. I can see why they warn you that you might get emotional but since I talk about our fertility stuff all the time, I survived. 

So we have this week off and then our final visit with our social worker is on the 11th. She will then have a couple weeks to write report and then on to dossier!!!!!!!!!  Dossier is the paperwork that we have to send to china. So basically it is a much smaller stack of papers and we get the state seal and notarized as needed and then mail to china and get a log in date (LID). One we have an LID we are officially a waiting family!!!!!!  This process is moving right along and we couldn't be more happy!!!!  

I want to tough on the tshirts again. We are not fundraising to pay for our adoption but we want our friends and family to be involved in this process and we also want to be able to help the orphanage that we get meimei from to take tremendous care of future babies waiting for their forever family. Please consider getting a shirt for your entire family!!!!  They are $20 and come in any size you could want!!!  You can contact me or anyone in my family!!!  Also I have order forms at the dental office if u want to get one or maybe make copies and put them at your place of business!!!!!  Also feel free to request order forms if you want to get some group orders!!!!  It really is a great cause and we really want to show how much we appreciate these people caring for our daughter!!!!  I am thinking about setting up a Facebook page for the adoption updates and also would love for you that order shirts to take a picture of your family in the shirts and post on our page!!!  I will post more information on that when I get it going. In the meantime, please sell and buy the shirts!!!  If I am going to reach my goal of 300 shirts I am going to need for all of you to buy them, put order forms in your work and ask everyone you know if they have bought one yet!!!!  Thanks to all of you that have already ordered one, I cannot wait to see your pictures!!!!!!!